Kids are a no touchy!

Oh yes I certainly picked a most interesting subject today, didn't I? pedophiles. As you might noticed I don't have a one way solution or conclution about anything. I am in between, standing in the middle, feeling for both sides and wanting to understand both sides. Which is also why I have this vision on adults abusing the innocence of children. I do no think it's right or excused. However I feel their shame and I feel sorry for them.

By accusing someone for touching or abusing chidlren is a very harsh and it ruins that person's life. Even when he never did it and the court calls him innocent, then people will forever suspect him and it will ruin his life forever. Getting the glances, not being trusted, all of this would follow him even if he is an innocent man who never in his life thought of children that way, never in his life touched on inapproiate places. Like Michael Jackson. How many cases has that guy not got on his neck? 15 cases? And you know what's the fun thing about them? He was claimed innocent in all cases. Yet the medias and the public world and the internet still harrash the man, even after his death people all over the world let the pedophile jokes run across the world, he cannot live the way he used to, because he was accused for being a pedophile. Most be absolutely horrible when you try run a life around with your own kids.

Beside that. Taking a look one those who's fetish really is children, whom really are pedophiles. Taking a step away from it looking it over I think. Poor people.

Imagine the only thing that turns you on, the only thing you can work with, is something that's illegal, and you must push down your sexual sides, and your sexual needs. Just imagine if it was illegal to love the person you love, and wanting to have sex with him. Wouldn't it be horrible to denied this? To know that the entire world would want to kill you and look down on you if you ever should do it. I think that's one horrible thing, and I think pedophiles needs proffesional help in addition to live a good life without thinking about kids. But why do we other people think of it so wrongly?

Because they are kids. They are too young and innocent to understand the real contest of it, and even if you would find a kid who liked what happened to him/her, later in life this kid would probably come to realise it was very wrong. That what happened wasn't right, and to put those images and that memory into an innocent child is a horrible crime.

But some pedophiles have common sense. They know how wrong their thoughts are, the know they shouldn't be near or work with kids. But you cannot keep your sexual frustration down forever, eventually those people would try. And someday the kid will tell one of it's parents about what happened. And the storm is breaking out. Why do they work with kids then ? Why take the chance when we know the kids won't keep it a secret and tell what happened? Because they simply can't resist. I don't blame them, you just have to think about your own sexual interest to understand how they would feel. Why does these people with common sense not seek proffesional help then? I think the answer in so simple.

Think how people would react. A pedophile! Going out admitting it and try get help. Even he/her would get his life ruined even if he/she never touched or got near children. To ruin your life like that when try changing your person and being isn't motivating.

People should give more second chances.

That's what makes the difference in the world.